Independent

 There is no denying the fact that we are social animals. So, no matter how much we tell ourselves that we do not need human company and want to believe that we can survive alone, it is not practical. Our grandparents/parents lived in joint families (at least in India) and in ancient times, people always lived and travelled in groups.

Somewhere during the modern growth of human civilization, we have been fed that being independent is super cool. Of course it is and we have to be independent and not depend on others. But at the same time, we have to be mindful when we talk about being independent. Independent does not mean that we don't need people or that we don't care for people. The real meaning of being independent is also to show vulnerability when the need arises; to know that it is ok (in fact essential) to seek help if required and to help others when needed. I feel that these days, independence is easily construed as being aloof or indifferent or unconcerned about anyone/anything. 

The thin line that exists between so many traits/behaviour/qualities have to be understood in our own lives to make our lives simpler. 

Can anyone deny the joy of meeting people, talking to people, caring for people and the relief/solace of receiving care or love from others when needed (like during sickness)? 

I feel that there are a lot of illusions we form in this world. The first step is to recognize them. And I feel that this is one of them!

My two cents 😌 

All are independent
 but together 😍